Accountability & Harm Reduction in Sacred Sexuality
A Free Panel Discussion on Repair, Healing and Responsibility.
This panel is part of our "Culture of Care" focus month, exploring what it means to create truly supportive containers in transformational work.
Meeting details and replays will be sent via email.
Join us for a nuanced conversation about responsibility, repair, and community healing in the sacred sexuality field.
What We'll Explore
The sacred sexuality community is grappling with complex questions about accountability, responsibility, and how we create truly supportive spaces. This panel brings together experienced voices to explore:
- Community dynamics: Moving from dominator to partnership paradigms in how we address harm and accountability
- Shared responsibility: Who holds accountability when things go wrong—facilitators, venues, communities, or participants?
- Nuanced perspectives: Can we hold space for people's capacity to both help and harm? How do we navigate the complexity of flawed humans doing transformational work?
- Effective accountability: When do accountability attempts create more harm than healing? What does genuine repair look like?
- Beyond black and white: How do we respond proportionally to different types of harm, from consent accidents to predatory behavior?
- Practical approaches: What does it actually look like to address ruptures and take responsibility in real-world situations?
This isn't about providing easy answers, but about having the nuanced conversations our field desperately needs.
Our Panelists
Jen Underwood
Jen Underwood is an emotional mastery and leadership coach who helps people lead with integrity and relate to themselves, others, and the world in healthy ways. She has a background in clinical counseling with a double Master’s degree and an undergrad in writing and cultural ethnic studies, and has been an entrepreneur, professional coach and mentor, and a facilitator of in person events around the world for over a decade.
She works with men and women who want to better handle the challenges of being a more aware and attuned leader in today's world, helping them create boundaries, strengthen communication, develop and use their voice in this world, heal attachment patterns, and grow resilience, confidence, and self-trust so they can thrive in their leadership - in work, relationships, parenthood, and their personal lives.Â
Dave Booda
Dave Booda is a writer, musician and social entrepreneur. He is the co-founder of IntimacyFest and hosts the Darkness Experiment, a 5-day relational retreat in the complete dark. He has led over 450 workshops on connection, touch and relationships and has consulted for and facilitated experiences for companies, communities, retreats, festivals, conferences, birthday parties, weddings, funerals, and gatherings of all kinds — with the intention to inspire authenticity, connection and group cohesion. He has published over 200 essays for boodaism.com and played over 1000 shows as a touring singer/songwriter. As a musician he also moonlights as his alter-ego “Boodananda“, an over-the-top spiritual sex shaman who performs at festivals with the purpose of educating the public about abuser and predator warning signs. He is also a former Naval Officer and graduate of the U.S. Naval Academy, currently serving on the board of directors for the Foundation for Intentional Community while living in rural San Diego, California.
Luna Agneya
Lead teacher at Evolving Eros, the Sensual Arts School and Liberating Love Collective. She's been working professionally with the erotic for over 15 years and creating live events for over 13 of those, from workshops to retreats, festivals and teacher trainings. Trained in somatics, shadow work, Sacred Sensuality, and traditional Nondual Tantra, she bridges the sensual, scientific and spiritual—empowering participants to liberate love through depth, integrity, and liberation.
Philippe Lewis
For over 20 years, Philippe has been shaping immersive experiences around sensuality, sovereignty, and conscious intimacy. He founded Mystic Temple of Bliss in Oakland, co-created Club Exotica in San Francisco, and pioneered “2nd-base parties” focused on safe, non-sexual touch. In each space, he wove in deep education on consent, personal boundaries, and respectful erotic expression—inviting people to rediscover their bodies, desires, and relational integrity
Who This Is For
- Facilitators and space holders in sacred sexuality, tantra, and embodiment work
- Community leaders navigating accountability processes
- Anyone interested in creating more conscious, supportive communities
- Those seeking nuanced perspectives on complex community dynamicsÂ
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This conversation is designed for mature practitioners ready to engage with complexity and nuance. We'll be exploring difficult territory with care and depth.
After registration, you'll receive the Zoom link and any preparatory materials.
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