A FREE 3-PART TRAINING WITH LUNA AGNEYA
The Love Paradigm Leader
The collective is calling for a new kind of leader in Eros spaces...
A new chapter of this work.
A Three-Part training series for sacred sexuality, Tantra and conscious relating leaders ready to evolve and lead the new paradigm of Eros work.
The scene is evolving (thank goodness)
People are hungry for spaces where they can heal, connect and come alive. Spaces to grow erotically and relationally.
Places to shed the shame of purity culture and heal from the multi-millennia abuse of the erotic.
Places to gather in community, to play, to learn and to awaken their ecstatic potential.
Sadly, Too many people have abused this work. Used this work as an excuse to run their shadows and ego.
People are becoming more aware, more discerning, and asking us to do better. They want spaces they can confidently recommend to others, spaces that are held with care and intentionality that don't come with asterixis and caveats about safety or problematic behaviours.
There is a calling for leaders who hold high integrity, who put the group first, who take accountability for their power, and shows people a new way of being, in true alignment with love and liberation. Not the same old systems and patterns with fancy robes and nice lighting.
They don't need another guru figure. They need leaders who:
- hold high integrity, who live and breath this work, including in their private lives
- consider the group first, including the most vulnerable person in it. It's about service, not feeding their ego and preaching.
- take accountability for their power, embodied their ethics and doesn't spiritually bypass the real effects of their behaviours.
- show people a new way of being: embodied, honest, and in alignment with love and liberation
This is the Love Paradigm Leader.
I'm in! Give me the training
Why now?
Because the old model is failing... loudly and publically. By now most people have watched the cult documentaries about NeoTantra schools. They've seen the call-outs and heard the rumours. NeoTantra has a bad name, and many people who could benefit from this work won't even go to events because they have heard the horrific stories of abuse. Others have attended and left with more trauma to process rather than the healing and awakening they longed for.
We need to do better.
Much of Western tantra was built on the dominator paradigm: one charismatic person at the top, hypersexuality and questionable ethics sold as liberation, catharsis and performance modelled as healing, nervous systems being pushed past their edges and called "breakthrough", super high price tags for healing which add pressure to have said breakthroughs... And 'spiritual teachings' that discouraged discernment, gaslit victims and encouraged people to ignore their own boundaries and inner knowing.
There is another way
We've been training the next generation of leaders in how to do things better. How to evolve the industry, understand our roles and responsibilities, approach this work with humility and have a lot of fun along the way.
This training will help inspire you for what this evolution can look like, and what the new paradigm of leadership will ask of us. It's the 'Age of Aquarius', a time for collective revolution and growth. A time for activism, visioning a better future and being part of the change we need in the world.
That includes the Sacred Sexuality space.
From the Dominator Paradigm to the Love Paradigm
The shift in our scene isn't just about our scene. It's a collective shift, and a remembering of something ancient and natural.
(Inspired by Rianne Eisler's work on dominator/partnership paradigms)
The Dominator Paradigm
- The charismatic guru at the top, nepotism and playing into power to rise
- Hypersexuality and availability sold as sexual liberation
- Push though and self-gaslight sold as healing
- Leaders extracting from their students sexually and financially
- Questioning authority = out
- Centralised and secretive
- Accountability avoided
- Individualist
- Patriarchal, supremacist, ignorant to privilage
- POWER and status at the centre, glorifying shadow behaviours
The Love Paradigm
- The leader in service to the group
- Eros in its nourishing state
- Nervous-system wise: depth through safety and integration
- Authentic, embodied transmission
- Playful, joyful and celebratory
- Decentralised, accountable, regenerative
- Leaders nourished and supported without needing to extract
- Community-centred
- Compassionate, feminist, inclusive and aware
- LOVE and heart qualities like care, compassion and collaboration at the centre
Inside the Training
✦ PART 1
The Evolved Eros Leader
Why neo-tantra couldn't heal the erotic wound, and what can
What we're collectively being asked to step into, and how we get there. We'll explore what it really takes to heal the erotic wound collectively, and the move beyond neo-tantra into Somatic Tantra and new fusion work suited to the modern condition
The real strengths, and real pitfalls, of the sensitive, high-integrity leader: grounded, willing to listen, modelling healthy relating rather than playing the know-it-all rockstar.
Includes 2 practices to feel this work, not just intellectualise it
✦ PART 2
Holding the Pillar
The energetics of transformation
How to hold high intensity and deep work without collapsing, fawning or burning out: going there yourself, holding centre, training your nervous system, intuition and sensitivity.
We'll explore why if you perform, they perform, and the difference between authentic transmission and playing a character. We'll touch on what it takes to drop people into deep states, to metaphysically walk between worlds: in trance space, and in the room at the same time.
And we'll deepen into fierce love: the mamma-bear energy that protects your space, so the most dominant never get to sacrifice the most vulnerable.
Includes a Practice for shifting states and embodying the resilience and flexibility to hold this work.
✦ PART 3
The Secret Ingredients for Deeper Temple Spaces
Bonus Masterclass · an hour
Selling sacred but delivering a house party?
So many temple nights have the incense and the intention, but not the depth. The difference between a sexy space and an erotic one, and why it changes how you design everything. Here you'll learn my Temple Pillars framework, the seven secret ingredients that separate a play party from a sacred space, and how to open a space so people actually drop in: into trance, flow and the transpersonal.
This is a masterclass we ran earlier in the year, and it will give you a taste of what it means to run really profound spaces for people to experience a different reality and actually embody the love paradigm in a space - whether you're running workshops, play parties, temple nights or rituals, you'll get a lot of inspiration in this one.
It includes a delicious eros drop in practice to give you a taste of how you can lead people deeper.
Bonus - Sexy, Sacred and Safe Event Facilitation E-Book
Our old freebie is included in the training which covers what it takes to run spaces that are sexy (playful, juicy, get people in the vibes) sacred (not like appropriation vibe cringe but actually touching something divine and real) and safe (enough... what that looks like in practice!)
+ Intro to our training pathway and courses
If you're feeling inspired and want to go deeper, we'll introduce you to our learning pathways and how to become certified with Evolving Eros through our Eros Facilitator Training and be part of the movement.
"I was blown away by the quality of not only the depth of facilitation insights drawing from Luna and Tristen's actual experience, but also the sophistication of constructs that help navigate the complex terrain and dynamics in these powerful Temple spaces."
"Luna and Triss are fantastic facilitators, highly approachable and knowledgeable about their crafts, and provide a welcoming and valuable learning experience for people new to creating and running temple events"
"What I expecially like about Luna's teaching is her ability to give clear and comprehensive answers and explanations about complex spiritual topics, in particilar related to Tantra"
"If you're new or relatively new to it, I highly recommend the Eros Facilitation training as it will increase the chance of success on all levels - participants, facilitators, and financial and logistic success. Benefit from years of experience without having to do the "mistakes" Luna and Triss made during their journey of facilitating. And they are both super knowledgeable, approachable and fun ! Plus too many goodies to list here"
-Evolving Eros training Participants
How It Works
Register by checking out for the free training. You will create a free account here on our platform and find the training in the course area.
Part 1 drops on the 28th, Part 2 a day later, and Part 3 after that.
Each is about an hour of teaching and embodied practice, so give yourself the time to really drop in.
If you're vibing with what we're sharing, at the end there will be invitations to go deeper and study with us.
No pressure sales tactics or manipulative marketing... that's old paradigm games
Give me the training!
Who you're learning from...
Luna Agneya
Author of The Liberated Sensualist · Founder of Evolving Eros, The Sensual Arts School and Love That Liberated.
I started running sexy events when I was only 20... first in the 'unconscious' scenes of bands, babes and booze and eventually to the sacred sexuality and conscious intimacy movement. I've run hundreds of events, facilitated in the thousands of workshops over that time... everything from conscious kink to transformational ecstatic death rituals to beginners tantra. I've been teaching facilitators since 2022.
My work lives where NonDual Shaiva Tantra meets contemporary somatics, erotic mysticism and conscious relating. I call it Somatic Tantra and focus on love and liberation.
My work has taken me around the world to experience and learn countless spaces and teachers, to run countless events and to co-create with lots of wonderful humans.
I run Evolving Eros with my husband and co-teacher Tristen, and we love seeing this work evolve, grow and bloom.
From Student to Leader
“I used to be scared I would mess things up or not be able to hold space. The training gave me tools and structure so I could relax—and be more brave. I’m proud I overcame the fear. I was terrified of doing things wrong… but now I host spaces where people leave floating with joy."
Kali
Evolving Eros Graduate
Is this for me?
This is for you if:
✦ You already run tantra, sacred sexuality, temple or embodiment events and you are committed to showing up as best you can to serve this work. You know there is always more to learn.
✦ You've been attending these events for years and feel ready to start leading and creating the kind of spaces you wish the world had more of.
✦ You teach embodiment, yoga, breathwork or wellness and want to bring eros into your work with real skill and integrity. You know it's more risk and responsibility and you want to do it well.
✦ You've seen the shadow side of the scene and want to do it differently.
✦ You're a sensitive soul, and you've wondered whether that's a weakness in a leader. (It isn't, but it needs training.)
It's not for you if you're looking for a certificate shortcut, or you'd quite like to be a cult leader. Genuinely, wrong door.
The Love Paradigm Leader is brought to you by Luna Agneya and Triss Tashi, co-founders of Evolving Eros, dedicated to raising the standard of sacred sexuality facilitation through ethical, trauma-aware, queer-inclusive training and community.
EVOLVINGEROS.COM
