The scene is evolving (thank the goddess)

People are hungry for spaces where they can heal, connect and come alive. Spaces to grow erotically and relationally. Spaces with real humans and real emotions in an ever increasingly technological and disconnected era. 

Places to shed the shame of purity culture and heal from the multi-millennia abuse of the erotic. To heal gender ruptures and reclaim erotic innocence and the authentic power of love.

Places to gather in community, to play, to learn and to awaken their ecstatic potential - as humans have gathered for millenia.

Sadly, Too many people have abused this work. Used this work as an excuse to run their shadows and ego. People are becoming more aware, more discerning, and asking us leaders to do better. They want spaces they can confidently recommend to others, spaces that are held with care and intentionality that don't come with asterixis and caveats about safety or problematic behaviours. 

There is a calling for leaders who hold high integrity, who put the group first, who take accountability for their power, and shows people a new way of being, in true alignment with love and liberation. Not the same old systems and patterns with fancy robes and nice lighting. 

They don't need another guru rockstar figure.

They need leaders who:

• train their nervous system and intuition to be both sensitive and high capacity to hold the depth of this work
• models authenticity and healthy relating instead of performing a caricature of awakening and power. 
• protects the most vulnerable in the room, even when it makes them unpopular or costs them financially because the group field comes first. 
• carries the wisdom of lineage and their own living wisdom
• hold high integrity, people who live and breath this work, including in their private lives
• take accountability for their power, embodied their ethics and doesn't spiritually bypass the real effects of their behaviours.
• show people a new way of being: embodied, honest, and in alignment with love and liberation

This is the Love Paradigm Leader.

Why now?

Because the old model is failing... loudly and publically. By now most people have watched the cult documentaries about NeoTantra schools. They've seen the call-outs and heard the rumours. NeoTantra has a bad name, and many people who could benefit from this work won't even go to events because they have heard the horrific stories of abuse. Others have attended and left with more trauma to process rather than the healing and awakening they longed for. 

We need to do better. 

Much of Western tantra was built on the dominator paradigm: one charismatic person at the top, hypersexuality and questionable ethics sold as liberation, catharsis and performance modelled as healing, nervous systems being pushed past their edges and called "breakthrough"... And 'spiritual teachings' that discouraged discernment, gaslit victims and encouraged people to ignore their own boundaries and inner knowing. 

There is another way 

We've been training the next generation of leaders in how to do things better. We've been running events successfully for over a decade without the old paradigm BS so we know it's possible to have both depth, edginess and safety.

We have been leading a new wave, exploring how to evolve the industry, understand our roles and responsibilities, approach this work with humility and have a lot of fun along the way.

This training will help inspire you for what this evolution can look like, and what the new paradigm of leadership will ask of us. It's the 'Age of Aquarius', a time for collective revolution and growth. A time for activism, visioning a better future and being part of the change we need in the world.

That includes the Sacred Sexuality space. 

"I was blown away by the quality of not only the depth of facilitation insights drawing from Luna and Tristen's actual experience, but also the sophistication of constructs that help navigate the complex terrain and dynamics in these powerful Temple spaces."

"What I especially like about Luna's teaching is her ability to give clear and comprehensive answers and explanations about complex spiritual topics, in particular related to Tantra"

"If you're new or relatively new to it, I highly recommend the Eros Facilitation training as it will increase the chance of success on all levels - participants, facilitators, and financial and logistic success. Benefit from years of experience without having to do the "mistakes" Luna and Triss made during their journey of facilitating. And they are both super knowledgeable, approachable and fun ! Plus too many goodies to list here"

"Luna and Triss are fantastic facilitators, highly approachable and knowledgeable about their crafts, and provide a welcoming and valuable learning experience for people new to creating and running temple events"

-Evolving Eros training Participants

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